When I tune into the energy of this moment in time, I feel a vulnerable tide sweeping in, with an edge of frothy intuitive power. The waves of sensitivity we feel may seem red hot and overwhelming at times but in their raw organic fullness, there is an immense empowerment waiting, hidden under the deep rolling waves.
We are taught as children the absolute need for control — of ourselves, of our lives, our relationships and emotions. We are asked to have a tight fist around our choices and to avoid mistakes.
This is not the way toward freedom, my friends.
That path leads to endless struggle and a merciless beating on our inner armor.
Control is an illusion.
There is an ocean of potential outcomes for each choice we make and the variables are determined by more than just our individual consciousness. The consciousness, karma and free will of the other people involved in any given situation, the collective consciousness of the world, as well as the energy of related elements and places — all of these points of connection determine the ultimate geometric shape that forms.
The more we seek to control outcomes that we alone do not have sole influence over, the more we are setting ourselves up for heartbreak and disappointment. We only have sovereignty over our own reactions and actions.
But there is another way to live — a MUCH easier way.
We can surrender. This does not mean we surrender our own will or power, it means we surrender to the cosmic unfolding of our lives. It means we let go of our need to control everything in our constant bid to feel safe and instead choose to ride whatever waves appear on the horizon, using our higher consciousness as the surf board and our intuition as the rudder.
When we step into a place of allowing — a detachment from a specific outcome while adopting an objective curiosity about what could happen — this is when life becomes magical.
Of course, as humans, we will still feel the vast range of emotions possible and this is part of our experience here. The goal isn’t to detach from our emotions, it’s to detach from our desire to have certain emotions over other ones.
If you can simply honor and allow whatever arises (emotions and events) to exist, without judging it — recognizing that it must be there for a reason, even if you don’t yet know what that reason is — you will become an adept surfer in this reality.
Our sensitivity is a gift, not a curse.
Being sensitive is an indication that your intuitive antennae are live and operational. It signifies that you are aware of deeper levels of existence, levels that wouldn’t even appear on your radar if you weren’t sensitive enough to pick up on their subtle energies.
Sensitivity is a superpower.
Sensitivity is required in many real-life situations. When you’re aware of the emotional needs of others, when you can feel the effect a certain choice will have on those around you, when you can anticipate what a decision will cost you energetically, when you have enough self-awareness that you can identify a deeper meaning behind why you’re feeling a certain way — these are vital life skills.
Why then, is sensitivity viewed as a weakness in our modern culture?
Oddsfish, Cap’n Hook...
We are multi-sensory beings of light, having a physical experience in this realm. Any layer of sensitivity to our surroundings and the fellow beings who share this planet with us is a major advantage.
Let’s drop the “impenetrable fortress” act, shall we?
It’s a ruse anyway. We all know that inside the hologram of indifferent strength we may project on the outside, we each have a fleshy underbelly and a soft heart on the inside that cares very much what happens.
How about we adopt a new paradigm: VULNERABILITY IS STRENGTH.
Starsong Tip: Brené Brown has some amazing books and TED talks on this subject (watch The Power of Vulnerability first and then Listening to Shame. Check her out if you haven’t yet!
In order to be fully vulnerable, we have to drop our walls and show our true self. This takes absolute courage in spite of the very real knowledge that we might get hurt in the process.
But those who choose to be vulnerable despite the risks discover a very interesting secret — we are actually made stronger by choosing truth over comfort.
And by being authentic, you open the door for others to be authentic in return.
Over the course of the past 5 years, I’ve completely changed my life — all by committing to speak my truth (with kindness) in every moment, rather than people pleasing and peacemaking. It’s been a wild ride, turbulent and emotionally exhausting at times but I wouldn’t change it for anything.
This trial by fire has remade me into an infinitely stronger version of myself.
Try it out for yourself and you will see remarkable changes in your wellbeing and quality of life.
Our true nature is one of infinite possibilities — why restrict yourself to only the options outlined by your controlling and limited mind? We can be so much more if we allow ourselves to open to the rich fullness of taking chances.
Channeled Poem — Emotional Alchemy
Try though I might
I can't take flight
My wings seem smooth
My heart an open wound
All my fears rise to the surface
Beneath I feel worthless
Thoughts clash together
War within tearing feathers
My world dims in focus
Choices all unchosen
I can't make sense of it all
Lost in the storm, I fall
What is shadowed within?
Layers of pain unwritten
Can I let go the mask —
Fight for freedom at last?
Drowning in sorrow
Yesterday burdens tomorrow
Tears bleed the inner hurt
Time stands still unheard
My story knows beauty
Eclipsed and married surely
Betrayal mars the landscape
Gorgeous brutal heartache
Loss colors my painting
But love guides the brush
Sheltered by faith
I am embraced by grace
What is shadowed within?
Layers of pain unwritten
Can I let go the mask —
Fight for freedom at last?
Can I trust the unseen?
Divine nature revealed
Reaching out, I am blind
But inside I am wise
I see the path to take
My oath to make
Follow your heart
Make truth your art
I claim my destiny
I choose to be me
Sacred melody calling
Mystic song dawning
I am gentle and kind
Intuitive guidance
Stars light my way
Darkness fades to grey
To uncloaking your true sensitive self & letting the wind of Divine destiny carry your flight,
Starsong Maiden
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